In putting together The New American Wedding, I talked to hundreds of couples, parents, siblings, friends, attendants, florists, planners, designers and even a few brilliant bakers! It was enough to show me that my original idea was right. – There was, indeed, a vast majority of weddings happening in the United States that passed beneath the radar of the Bridal Media, which were just beginning to stand up and proudly celebrate the fact that though they were not the iconic brides and grooms, plastic and placed within rigid rules on the tops of cakes, they knew about who and what they were and they were very much in love and filled with delight. Celebration was being had, unexplored and unsanctioned by the books and magazines.
What I found was even beyond my original hopes. I found a spirit of delight, profound joy in having the chance to face real-life challenges, concerns and pleasures with someone who saw the truth in their partner and loved what they saw. What better reason for celebration.
Please join us in sharing some of what you see, out there in the world, as couples unite and commit to one another in authentic and wonderful ceremonies and the creation of new ritual to mark the truth of their lives and the growth of our culture.