Of all the things we learned, nothing surprised me more than the position taken by New American Grooms, who wanted to make sure we understood that they were active participants in the wedding – not just players given a tux and a role. This, they made us understand, was different than the behavior of their fathers, their older brothers, or even themselves at their first wedding! Do you have an interesting take on the changing role of men in weddings? If so, we’d like to learn about it.